The Presence of Grief
Proverbs 14:13
Even in laughter a heart may be sad, and joy may end in grief.
Grief is not always recognizable. Human nature looks for a way to cope with loss, and emotional responses will vary. We think of laughter as a sign someone is having a good time, but the hurting can laugh, as well. In fact, laughter may simply be a means to cover what is really inside so the pain of loss will be a little more bearable for just a moment. With real loss you will encounter grief, and we should never assume someone is coping well just because they laugh or seem to enjoy life.
We must understand that grief awaits us all. While we may be joyful and full of life one day, we may face grief and devastation the next. Many of you know this well from your own experiences, as do I. Knowing how to cope with grief is important, regardless of how you feel today. Where will you turn tomorrow if your world turns upside down and shakes you to the core?
Fortunately, Christians have the hope of a resurrected Savior. Jesus died but rose again, and we, too, will rise from the ashes of consumed dreams when we turn to Him. Our loved ones in Christ are merely waiting for us on the other side, and we will be reunited with them again. We must, however, find a way to continue this life without them. Grief gives us a way to let go and continue to live. John 16:20 assures us that while we may weep and wail at earthly loss, our sorrow will turn to joy in Him.
Grief is not meant to last forever, but it may be necessary for a while. Allow grief to do its work, and know that joy is coming. God did not send you through loss to tear you down; He is building your faith. What He will resurrect in you will be unrecognizable from your past, just as Mary Magdalene did not recognize the risen Jesus. Your new life is worth every tear you cry and every pain you feel, so laugh, cry, scream if you must. One day grief will end, and new life will begin.
Have a blessed day!